My Soul is Thirsting for Relationship
Does the Trinity still confuse you? Do you still struggle to understand how three persons are One God, not three Gods? Do you feel sometimes, or most times, the idea of the Trinity has no relation to your practical daily life? If your answer to any of these questions is yes, then you are not alone. We all get stuck because we often engage in the hair-splitting theories about the Trinity. The Most Holy Trinity is not an idea or concept to be known and explained intellectually. The Most Holy Trinity is first and foremost a love that must be lived. Our God is three persons to be invited with us into a relationship.
Therefore, we come to understand the Trinity after we have lived and practiced love – practice before theory, experience before explanation, belief before theology! We say God is Father (and Mother), Son (or redeemer), and Spirit (advocate or lawyer) because we experience God in these three different ways. These three ways are all loving ways. The whole experience of the Trinity is relational. You will never understand it until you are in love and in relationship with the Trinity. The meaning of God is a love that is shared in Christ with us. Our reception of this love involves our sharing it with one another. God is a relationship of love in which we are called to participate. Saint Thomas Aquinas would say “Love (God) is to love and be loved” – relational.
In the Book of Deuteronomy, our first reading, Moses reminds his fellow Israelites to never forget their God is like no other in love in with them: “… did any god venture to go and take a nation for himself [herself] from the midst of another nation, by testings, by signs and wonders…?” (Dt 4:34). God is intimately in love with, and unconditionally committed to, humanity because God created humanity. That’s the relationship right there - God is our creator and we are God’s creation and creatures. This is why the Gospel asks that we be baptized and baptized in the name of God – the Father (source of all being), the Son (eternal word), and Holy Spirit (see Mt 28:16-20). We are being called to claim our connectedness, relationship, and participation in the love that exists in this three-person God.
In Ordinary Time we reflect on the daily and concrete life of the early Christians, how they lived still connected to the Creator through Christ in the Spirit, so that we also may be faithful and effective witnesses of Christ in our own times.
How then do we maintain our relationship and stay in good standing with God who has faithfully kept his or her part of the bargain?
Faithfulness is very much like Patriotism in politics. Therefore, we can learn a thing or two from our country’s observance of Memorial Day as we honor those who paid the ultimate sacrifice for the love of our country. Those women and men who died defending the country did not die for a physical or material land. They weren’t in love with the USA’s wealth, land size, real estate, military might, etc. They were in love with the USA’s ideals, values, spirit, and principles. Here are some quotes about the patriotism of our heroines and heroes:
“A [person’s] country is not a certain area of land, of mountains, rivers, and woods, but it is a principle; and patriotism is loyalty to that principle (George William Curtis).
“There is nothing nobler than risking your life for your country” (Nick Lampson).
“Guard against the impostures of pretended patriotism” (George Washington).
Like our patriots, we Christians need to commit to our relationship with Christ not only chasing material, physical, external things, but the spiritual values of love, sacrifice, unity, etc. We must practice love of humanity in all its difference and diversity in order to understand the God of the Trinity. We must learn to be open to worship with our political opponents and people who are different from us. That’s the way we can understand and feel the presence of the Trinity – the 3-person God, who loves us. Let our souls thirst for a relationship with God and humanity.
- Fr. Kwame