“Come Away by Yourselves … Rest for a While”
(Mark 6:31)
“The unexamined life is not worth living,” says the ancient sage Socrates. Life involves action and activity but before and after the action we must spend time to plan and think through and then reflect, rest and rejuvenate. Socrates’ wisdom inspired human culture to begin taking vacations. But, it is more important to note that, hundreds of years after him, Jesus makes vacating our busy lives to “rest for a while” part of the Christian lifestyle.
Jesus tells the apostles to practice something he himself very frequently practiced (Mt 14:13, 23; Mk 1:35, 6:46; Lk 4:42, 5:16). We know from these texts that he usually “stole away” to solitary places in order to pray. Jesus vacates the usual places of activity so that he can reflect on what he has already done and rethink God’s will and agenda for him going forward. This, then, is what he means the apostles should do; and one of the above texts even indicates that spending time away often to pray and reflect is a secret to the success of Jesus’ mission.
Like other priests in our diocese, I have 4 weekends and 6 Monday-Fridays in a year to vacation. Yet, I often find reasons not to spend all of this time or spend some of them in stay-cation. By so doing I often find myself in a continual active mode; and yes, I can see how that poorly reflects on my ministry, I am the first culprit of not following Jesus’ lifestyle and admonishing today.
Recently, however, generous parishioners and friends have intervened to save me from my un-Christian habit. I have received pre-paid vacation packages that my friends insist I cannot refuse. I am so grateful and speechless for the blessings that our St. Charles community shares with me.
They seem to be telling me what Jesus tells the apostles in the gospel, “come away by [yourself] to a lonely place and rest for a while.” If you think your life is good now, it can be better with stealing away for a while, because of the unreflective life – a life without retreats, a relationship without evaluation, a mission activity, and leadership without discernment and planning – is un-Christian and has no future.
When you take a vacation this summer or any other time, wherever you go, be sure to rest, have fun, rejuvenate, and rethink your life and relationship with God and your neighbor in light of Jesus’ advice.
Fr. Kwame