“Fear Not”: Fathers are Prophets
On Mother’s Day, I encouraged everyone to see mothers as shepherds who lead us with compassion. On this Father’s Day, I suggest that we see and celebrate fathers as prophets in light of the word of God on this 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time. But, why? What benefit or relevance do we get from associating those two words?
When I say fathers are prophets, I am not implying that fathers are interchangeable with prophets. Instead, “Fathers are prophets” is an aspirational statement… I’m hoping and praying that fathers will increasingly adopt a prophetic role in our world.
Given the problems we face in the world today, I am suggesting that fathers would be – and some of them already are – effective in fulfilling their responsibility if they adopt the character of the biblical prophets. Moreover, although we celebrate our individual human fathers – men with biological or adopted children – we must go beyond them and celebrate “fatherhood” itself, which is the God-given gift to humanity and a role that can be exercised by every human being.
Fathers are prophets in the sense that both thrive by adopting Jesus’ call to “fear no one” and “what I say to you in darkness, speak in the light” and “what you hear in whispers, proclaim on the housetops” (see Matt. 10:26-27). What Jesus tells the disciples here is what prophetic life is all about. A prophet like Jeremiah in the first reading is one who should not fear anyone but speak the truth, whether or not it is convenient.
In the Bible, a prophet is simply someone who speaks in the name of God. The Greek word “prophetes” comes from “proph-eime” which means “in the stead of”. So, a prophet speaks in the stead of God and is, therefore, God’s spokesperson. This is why the biblical prophets always prefix their preaching with “thus says the Lord.”
Now, since the word of God is challenging to worldly people, cultures, nations, and individuals, being a prophet or speaking God’s word is a dangerous business or lifestyle. A prophet is not popular or famous. Instead, a prophet is alone because people don’t want to hear the truth about their own lives and to change to bring about a better world.
A prophet is someone who shakes the foundation (not the roof) of the problems in life; s/he disturbs people who have stopped living and are stuck in their comfort zones. One could say that a prophet is a “professional trouble-maker” for people who refuse to confront the hard questions and change our systemically unjust world. However, although a prophet afflicts the comforted, a prophet also comforts the afflicted!
Fatherhood is a divine gift that ensures that all human beings are protected and provided for. Fathers guarantee the security of humanity. This role goes beyond a mere biological fathering of children by providing their needs and protecting them. More deeply, fathering ensures that their children are good in themselves and develop into being good and peaceful with all other human beings. In this way, effective fathering produces a world full of people living in harmony, justice, love, and peace.
The problem of race and division we face in our world today also reflects a failure of fatherhood. If we have a set of human beings who discriminate against “other” human beings and refuse to honor the humanity of those who look different from them, this is because no one had the "guts" – prophetic enough – to provide for them and protect them.
Fathers would help heal our world if they were fearless like the prophets. With courage, fathers must find out the truth of what is wrong with our society, country, political parties, cliques, families, and world. And, without fearing anyone - be it their own child, spouse, political party, church, bishop, or president - fathers must speak God’s word: the truth that gives justice, love, equality and life to all humans.
We celebrate all of you who are fathers, as you are our prophets! As we do so we pray that the courage of the prophets may inspire you to help move our world, Church, country, and families out of the tribulations we face. We also pray for all who are denied the benefit of fathers and children who are fatherless because of the failure of other fathers.
Happy Father’s Day!
-- Father Kwame